A book I recommend to friends.

ah the Mythical beast pushmepullyou

of which I have been a part too many times


if you don't recall it is a living lesson about dysfunctional relationships
when it gets to the point where two people are indistinguishable, you likely have lost all hope of keeping on in a sensible direction. Inevitably ones strengths will moderate the others weaknesses, but if not kept in balance, the more yielding partner sees a lot of the world receding as He or she walks thorough life backwards, being dragged where the dominant set of legs wants to go.


Please read: Too Nice for Your Own Good: Nine self sabotaging mistakes. ( author name)